Quitting smoking is tough, but having firm and unwavering support from someone like you will inspire and motivate them to stay on the path. Here are some tips on how you can be a quitter's go-to kaki, and help them to quit for good.

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Set a Date and Make a Plan

Quitting smoking is like going to war, and requires an arsenal of weapons at one's disposal.

Establish an official Quit Date with your buddy, and impose it immediately, a lapse in time will change minds.

Get your buddy to sign up for the I Quit 28-Day Countdown Programme and put your name down as their supporter. The programme gives clear milestones to work towards, including incentives that one can look forward to.

Print out the countdown calendar for daily visual tips, and add the Quit Line: 1800 438 2000 to their phone contact list.

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Let the Cheerleading Begin

Now is the time to whip out the pom poms! Round up supporters and fellow quitters to join in - create a WhatsApp group to help them stay engaged in the process, hear success stories or share and learn in the setbacks of others. The I Quit Club Facebook page is also another avenue for quitters to obtain with motivational ideas and tips.

Plan for outdoor activities together and special milestone treats such as a meal in seven days or an outing after 28 days.

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Tackle Withdrawal Symptoms Together

Quitters will start to experience nicotine withdrawal symptoms such as anxiety, anger, irritation and attention deficient problems about three to five days after their last cigarette. Don't let a bout of frustration derail your efforts!

Have healthy snacks such as nuts, fruit or dark chocolate on standby for them. Are they feeling restless and need to have something in their mouth or fingers? Have them try a fidget spinner or pop a sugar-free mint for a quick fix.

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Plan Your Route Through Smoke-Free Zones

Avoid temptation by detouring past smoking areas such as hawker centres and outside office buildings. Zip past the convenience store or the kopitiam so that they are not tempted to purchase a pack on a whim. Instead, stroll by smoke-free zones in Singapore such as parks and reservoirs, art galleries and public libraries.

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Let Them See it in Cash

Money can a great motivator, so why not up the stakes with a savings plan?

Get a transparent container, label it with the Quit Date and have them put in the equivalent cost of a pack of cigarettes e.g. $13 for every day that they are smoke-free. See their savings and their determination grow. You can even offer to match their savings, and use the rewards for a shared trip abroad!

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Plan to Rebound if They Relapse

It is rare for a smoker to permanently quit on their first attempt. A local study[1] found that 50% of smokers had attempted to quit the habit two to five times. Have a Plan B for a relapse and be mindful to tailor your response depending on their personality. Some people will need strict discipline to get back on track, while others will appreciate a softer approach.

If your buddy or family member picks up a cigarette in a moment of weakness, be understanding and appreciate that they have told you about the act rather than lie about it. Stay positive, be motivating and reset the Quit Date and countdown together with renewed optimism.

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What if They Ask for an E-Cigarette?

E-Cigarettes have gained attention of late and its marketing claims to be a healthier alternative to cigarettes. However, the formula used in e-cigarettes still contains nicotine and the vapour produced from combustion consists of cancer-causing chemicals[2]> such as formaldehyde and acetaldehyde[2]>. As such, e-cigarettes are still addictive and harmful, and are not an ideal replacement.

If the addiction is proving hard to beat, accompany your buddy to visit a doctor or a pharmacist for possible pharmacotherapy options. Nicotine replacement products may provide relief and ease difficult symptoms.

Ready to become a quitter's best kaki?

For more information, check out the I Quit Supporter Guide.

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  1. Joshi, V., Suchin, V., & Lim, J. (2010). Smoking Cessation: Barriers, Motivators and the Role of Physicians — A Survey of Physicians and Patients. Proceedings of Singapore Healthcare, 19(2), p. 145-153.
    Retrieved March 2017 from http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/201010581001900209

  2. Kosmider, L., Sobczak, A., Fik, M., Knysak, J., Zaciera, M., Kurek, J., et al. (2014, May 15). Carbonyl Compounds in Electronic Cigarette Vapors: Effects of Nicotine Solvent and Battery Output Voltage. Nicotine & Tobacco Research, 16(10), p. 1319-1326.
    Retrieved March 2017 from https://academic.oup.com/ntr/article-lookup/doi/10.1093/ntr/ntu078